Have you ever been told “you can’t do it”?  Maybe someone said “you’re  not good enough” and to find something else.  How did it make you feel?  It hurts doesn’t it?  After all, who wants to fail because life is about being successful, right?  Failure can be debilitating, it can lead to self-image issues, depression along with a host of other things.  When you were told you couldn’t do something or that you were not good enough, what did you do?  Did you believe them and move on?